AVOID PEOPLE WHO MESS WITH YOUR HEAD.PEOPLE WHO SAY THINGS TO UPSET.....

GREETINGS TO THE SATIVA FAMILY 🤗

TOPIC OF THE DAY IS :👉 "DEALING WITH TOXIC PEOPLE"🤔

WE ALL HAD TOXIC PEOPLE DUST US WITH THEIR POISON. SOMETIMES ITS MORE LIKE A DRENCHING.DIFFICULT PEOPLE ARE DRAWN TO THE REASONABLE ONES AND ALL OF US HAVE LIKELY HAD (OR HAVE) AT LEAST ONE PERSON IN OUR LIVES WHO HAVE US BENDING AROUND OURSELVES LIKE BARBED-WIRE IN ENDLESS ATEMPTS TO PLEASE THEM, ONLY TO NEVER REALLY GET THERE.

THEIR DAMAGE LIES IN THEIR SUBTLETY AND THE WAY THEY CAN ENGENDER THAT CLASSIC RESPONSE, " IT'S NOT THEM, IT'S ME". THEY CAN HAVE YOU QUESTION YOUR "OVER- REACTIVENESS",  YOUR "OVER SENSITIVITY' , YOUR" TENDENCY TO MISINTERPRET". IF YOU'RE THE ONE WHO CONTINUALLY HURT, OR THE ONE WHO IS CONSTANTLY ADJUSTING YOUR OWN BEHAVIOR TO AVOID BEING HURT, THEN CHANCES ARE THAT, IT'S NOT YOU AND IT'S VERY MUCH THEM.

BEING ABLE TO SPOT THEIR HARMFUL BEHAVIOR IS THE FIRST STEP TO MINIMIZING THEIR IMPACT. YOU MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO CHANGE WHAT THEY DO, BUT YOU CAN CHANGE WHAT YOU DO WITH IT, AND ANY IDEA THAT TOXIC SOMEBODY IN YOUR LIFE MIGHT HAVE THAT THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT. 

THEIR ARE PLENTY THINGS TOXIC PEOPLE DO TO MANIPULATE PEOPLE AND SITUATIONS TO THEIR ADVANTAGE.THEY KEEP YOU GUESSING ABOUT WHAT VERSION OF THEM YOU'RE GETTING.

KNOWING THE FAVORITE GO-TO'S FOR TOXIC PEOPLE WILL SHARPEN YOUR RADAR, MAKING THE MANIPULATION EASIER TO SPOT AND EASIER TO NAME. MORE IMPORTANTLY, IF YOU KNOW THE CHARACTERISTIC SIGNS OF A TOXIC PERSON, YOU'LL HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF CATCHING YOURSELF BEFORE YOU TIE YOURSELF IN DOUBLE KNOTS TRYING TO PLEASE THEM.

SOME PEOPLE CAN'T BE PLEASED AND SOME PEOPLE WON'T BE GOOD FOR YOU, AND MANY TIMES THAT WILL HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. BE CONFIDENT AND OWN YOUR OWN FAULTS, YOUR QUIRKS AND THE THINGS THAT MADE YOU SHINE. YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE'S APPROVAL, BUT REMEMBER IF SOMEONE IS WORKING HARD TO MANIPULATE, ITS PROBABLY BECAUSE THEY NEED YOURS. YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO GIVE IT BUT IF YOU DO, DON'T LET THE COST BE TOO HIGH. KNOW WHO IS WORTHY OF YOUR ENERGY AND YOUR TIME.🧐

DO HAVE A PRODUCTIVE DAY, BE SAFE.🙂✌❤🌍